This is the tenth and final in a series of 10 guest posts that will show you how to successfully apply the Law of Attraction.
By Heather Mathews
Author of Manifestation Miracle
My name is Heather Matthews, and I am a transformational speaker, life coach, and an expert on energy flow.
I spent years of my life chasing the carrot of more money and more time all because I believed that if I just worked hard enough, I’d eventually get there…
Yet all I needed was one simple secret technique that turned everything around for me… the secret that allowed me to get more, while doing less – the secret behind “The Secret”.
Plain and simple and as crazy as it sounds, the only way to quit struggling and instead start feeding endless cash and abundance into your life like an ATM machine on hyper-speed… is by giving up on hard work and forcing the Universe to give you everything you’ve ever wished for.
So, how do you do that?
It’s surprisingly easy to get started. You just need to follow these 10 Super Simple Steps to Attract Everything You’ve Ever Wanted:
Step #10: Remove your BIGGEST barrier to success
People don’t realize that their greatest roadblock is none other than their own mindset.
So often people ask “How can I change my mindset?” “How can I believe in myself?” We know that self-belief and a positive mindset are crucial to any success, but so many of us have more doubt in ourselves than faith in ourselves. Disappointments, setbacks, and bad experiences in life can lead to low-self-esteem and make it more difficult to believe in ourselves.
Actually, every person DOES believe in themselves, but they could be negative beliefs. They believe that they cannot be happy. They believe that they are not good enough. They believe they don’t deserve love and a myriad of other self-defeating things. These are called limiting beliefs. These are ingrained in us from our parents, families, school teachers, religious leaders, and society in general.
How can we replace limiting beliefs with empowering beliefs? The first step is to identify your beliefs and find the reason behind them. It’s a good idea to write a list of all the beliefs you have and then ask yourself “Is it good for me to believe that?” “Is this limiting me from getting or doing what I want?”
If you wrote, “I believe people like me don’t deserve to be happy,” ask yourself why you believe that. Do you feel mad? Sad? Worthless? Now realize that you can choose how you feel. You can choose what to think. In front of your limiting belief, write a positive affirmation such as “I deserve to be happy and I’m the most important person in the world.” Repeat this affirmation every day. Repeat what you want to believe over and over until you begin to believe it.
Loving yourself first is very important to begin the process of believing in yourself completely. See yourself without any judgement or recrimination. Accept all the good qualities – and yes, you have many! – and work on the ones you want to improve.
Practice the mirror exercise. Stand in front of a mirror for about 5-10 minutes. The mirror shows you exactly what you see. You can choose to see yourself as a wonderful creation or as a body full of cellulite. Your self-image exists only in YOUR mind, not in the mind of others around you. It is the sum of your thoughts about yourself. Look at yourself only with love and appreciation. Write down three things you like about yourself every day for 30 days. Remember you are a creator and you create things from inside to outside. You can create the image of yourself that you want to see in the mirror.
Believe only the good things people say about you. Believe only what you want to believe. What is good for you! Find people who believe in you. Don’t waste your time listening to negative people. Be polite and walk away as soon as you can. Remember, the most important thing is what you believe about you, so don’t let other people influence your thoughts about you.
Write about your successes. It doesn’t matter how big or small they are. Try to write at least three things you have accomplished every day. It will help you figure out what you need to do next and prove to yourself that you can do great things.
Believing in yourself takes a little effort, especially when you have spent your whole life thinking only negative things about yourself. Nobody changes in a day. Evolution takes practice and time. The most important thing is to START TODAY! Right now! Not tomorrow! Today is the perfect day to start to change your life into a better, happier life. You deserve the best things in life and you can create them. (That’s a perfect affirmation!) Have faith, be confident that you can change your mindset, love yourself, and do your self work every day.
Believe in yourself and your self will reward you every day!
Well. This completes my 10 steps to attract the life you want posts. Now, these ten steps that I talked about will get your foot in the door. Once you start doing them regularly, you’ll experience remarkable breakthroughs that you didn’t think were possible.
But if you want to experience even MORE changes on a massive (or even cosmic) scale, you need to check out my FULL course called Manifestation Miracle.
Learn how I unlocked the secret to ATTRACTING anything AND everything I wanted! CLICK HERE to watch the video now.
I wish you the best of everything and much success on your journey!