Through the Law Of Attraction, you can use your thoughts to manifest the career, the house, the car, and even the relationship of your dreams! Yes, the best way to seek a soul mate, or a life partner, is to use the Law Of Attraction. Instead of trying to force a great relationship, program your thoughts and let the Universe do all the hard work!
If you’re looking for the love of your life, try these 4 steps:
Know what you want!
To begin looking for the perfect life partner, make a list of the character traits you are looking for in a soul mate. Are you looking for someone who is soft-spoken, religious, a good cook, a good home-maker, loves animals, has a good sense of humor?
Is the person you are looking for tall or short; articulate or reticent; brunette or blonde; blue or brown eyes; athletically built or a bit stocky?
What do they do for work? What do they do in their free time? How is their relationship with their family? How are they with their finances?
Just as with anything that you request from the Universe, you have to be specific. If you haven’t given this much thought, spend some time meditating on what it is that you desire in a mate. Write it in your journal and think of it often. Feel what it would be like to be with this person and generate these feelings every time you think about them.
Wait with expectancy for the Universe to Deliver
Once you’ve determined what it is that you want, begin to expect that person to come into your life. How do you do that? Some ideas:
- If you are sleeping on a king-size bed now, sleep on one side of it and pretend your soul-mate is sleeping next to you.
- Make room in your closet for your soul mate’s clothes.
- Do the same on the dressing table to make room for your soul mate’s toiletries.
- If you go out shopping, buy a little something for your soul mate, like a scarf, or a hand towel.
Make believe that your soul mate is on the way and begin making room for him or her. Again, your emotions play a key role in the manifestation process. Make all these feelings real, and then go out and socialize as you normally would. Each time you go out, expect to meet your soul mate. And each time you meet a new person, compare them to your list of criteria. Have the feeling of expectancy that your soul mate will be joining your life soon.
Show the Universe and others how you want to be loved
You can’t expect someone to love you more than you love yourself! If you have been neglecting it, begin practicing self-care and self-love. This includes pampering yourself at the spa, the beauty or barber shop, and the nail salon. Notice how you feel when you love on yourself. Isn’t your vibration much higher once you’ve gotten your hair and nails done? This is the feeling that you want to feel with your soul mate. This is the vibration that you want to project to the Universe. Plus…you are so worth the effort! Repeatedly experiencing this feeling of love will attract more of the same. Remember, thoughts are things and like attracts like!
In the same way, you teach others how to treat you not only by how you treat yourself, but how you treat others. Your values are transparent in the way you treat others. If you want to attract kind, caring, generous people, you have to demonstrate kindness, compassion, and generosity. Always be cognizant of your feelings. If you have any hint of negativity in the form of jealousy, bitterness, or resentment work to cleanse your spirit of these emotions. Philippians 4:8 tells us Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things. Remember….thoughts become things!
Don’t Give Up
Good things come to those who wait! Be patient and allow the Universe in Its infinite wisdom and timing to manifest your ideal mate. So often we are in such a rush that when we don’t see the results of our affirmations and meditations, we throw in the towel and go back to doing things in our own way.
Instead of rushing the Universe, spend the time developing yourself into the ideal person for your mate. Yes! While you are working on manifesting someone, someone is working on manifesting you! Stop smoking if you want a non-smoker. Join a yoga class if you want someone who’s into fitness. De-clutter your home if you want a neat freak. None of us is perfect, so I’m sure there is some self-development that you can work on while you wait for your soul mate to arrive.
To sum up:
- Tell your subconscious exactly the person you are looking for as your soul mate and meditate as you would with all your other requests to the universe.
- You have to be clear in your choice of a soul mate and ask the universe to find for you this person each time you meditate.
- Never stop asking.
- Then imagine being married to such a person already.
The manifestation process is like the Universe sifting through the masses of people to bring to you your ideal choice. For anyone serious about attracting their ideal soul mate, this is one strategy not to be ignored. Relationships are such an important part of our life’s experience here on Earth. Take the time to generate and cultivate the best ones.